um- this is how you speak to someone who is dealing with you in a formal manner?

Where is the disconnect buddy – how’d you get all the way over there??

Please folks don’t send texts like this to people whom you are not even friendly like that with.  You look absolutely unprofessional and it is not ok. Men OR women.  This just looks completely nutzo.  I won’t tell you what else went on but call me if you really want to know.  Even I cannot believe how awful it got later on.